Wednesday, February 10, 2010

New month, same status

Apparently there is a private part to our international agency's website. I believe I might have known this at one point months ago and then forgot. That was way back at the point when there was something to do besides wait. Now that we have filled out all of the paperwork, and been approved, we have loads of time on our hands. I know once out little one arrives I will long for these days of freedom. I only wish I had tons of money to spend of doing things around the house.

The other day I was using some of this free time to lurk on a message board for moms and dads adopting from Korean. I think I have posted on this board 2 times. Both times I have not received a reply. Very rude if you ask me considering I was asking a direct question.

While lurking I saw a reference to the monthly update for my international agency. I did not know there was a monthly update much less where to find it. I asked when this update could be found. Both before and after posting the question, since I had no real faith that anyone would respond, I searched my international agency's website. Once I finally found this private part of the site I had to send an email to get a password. No one ever did respond to my post on that board, but I found the information despite their efforts at thwarting me.

Sadly, the information was the same as last month. They are still working with families that were approved in Dec 2008. We were approved in March 2009. So now I wait for next month so I can go back into the website and find out who is still waiting and if the wait is the same or if it has made any changes. This queue is WAY to long!


  1. That message board sounds frustrating. :( I'm glad you were able to find the information on your own.

    I hate that you two have so much waiting to do.

    Just wanted to say hello and let you know I'm thinking of you.

  2. I've been thinking about you recently. Glad you found the "private section". Hopefully next month you'll be closer :)

    Hope all is well with you and Mr. Frig despite the waiting.

  3. Hi Julie. Hope your 3some is doing well.

    Breen, I hope we'll be closer next month as well.

  4. So frustrating, Rachel! The good thing is you know where you stand, though. They are only 3 months ahead of you, so that's a good thing. Hugs!!



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